At kausfiles, the man and the medium have met. The man is Mickey Kaus, and the medium is the sponsored blog. Kausfiles is tucked into a corner of Slate, one of the best online political/cultural journals. The blog and the journal draw readers to one another in a very effective way. Kaus is well suited to this role as has taken to the new media as a termite to quartersawn oak, and is as good at exposing the pretensions of the Illuminati as he is at finding new ways to look at whatever everyone is chattering about.
In a recent post, Kaus drew attention to an exchange between Ann Coulter, the infant terrible of the right, and Peter Beinart, a very reasonable liberal journalist, on CNBC's Kudlow & Co. A question that emerged was whether homosexuals are more promiscuous than heterosexuals, as Coulter suggested. Beinart dismissed the idea as bigotry:
It's a statement of a bigot. Pure and simple. To suggest that gay
people are somehow inherently more promiscuous than straight people and
that straight people who are promiscuous are--therefore have latent
homosexuality tendencies, and, look, Larry, I'll--let me throw it to
you. It's not enough for people like me, for liberals, to say that when
Ann says that, she's being a bigot. You need to say it.
Now this strikes me as an empirical question: are homosexuals on average more promiscuous, or less, or about the same, as heterosexuals? As a matter of fact, it's this way or that way, or the other. Fortunately, Andrew Sullivan enters the fray. Sullivan, a gay conservative who spends his time bashing conservatives, has a unique position from which to comment.
The claim that Coulter is making and Kaus is seconding - that same-sex
love is inherently more promiscuous than heterosexuality - has a
simple, logical rejoinder: lesbians. Where are the lesbian bath-houses,
Ann? Where's the rampant lesbian promiscuity? Aren't lesbians
homosexual? Or do we just deploy these terms broadly, whenever they can
be used to stigmatize an entire minority?
If I follow Sullivan's argument, it is that homosexuality as such as no essential connection to promiscuity because there is no such thing as homosexuality as such. Male homosexuality and female homosexuality are two entirely different phenomena. There are in fact bath-houses, bookstores, and bars, where men regularly meet for sex with men they haven't met. Nothing like this, he is telling us, exists for lesbians.
The question may then be refined: are male homosexuals more promiscuous, on average, than heterosexuals. Sullivan agrees that they are, and his explanation is, in my view, dead spot on.
The phenomenon Kaus and Coulter are pretending to deal with is
called testosterone. It's called men - gay or straight. . . . The truth is that many gay men are acting like Bill Clinton,
because, like Bill Clinton, they are full of testosterone, and, like
Bill Clinton, they can get sex when they want. Clinton gets it and has
gotten it because of his charm and his power (which he regularly abused
for sexual harassment purposes). Many straight men would do the same if
they could get away with it. Can you imagine the lines for straight
bathhouses if women were as eager to get it on with strangers as men
are?
Gay men get it because their emotional and sexual universe is all-male and so twice as testosterone-laden
as the straight male sexual universe. There are no straight women to
direct and restrain their sexual drives and, in forty-nine states, no
social institutions strong enough to support their relationships.
Coulter's real issue is with men, not gays.
Sullivan's point is that male homosexuals are radically promiscuous not so much because they are homosexual as because they are male. Gay male sex life is what heterosexual sex life would be if women's inclinations were the same as that of the average male.
There is a perfectly natural explanation for this. In almost all species, the more females a male can mate with, the more off-spring he will have. The same is not true for a female animal, who will have the same number of progeny regardless of how many males she entertains. A harem of males will do a doe no good, but it does a lot of good for the buck. Thus among elk as among we human beings, males are eager, females are choosy. Human homosexuality (there are other examples in nature) is biologically puzzling. But whatever the explanation, males are still males.
Sullivan is right. I note, however, that this weakens one of his arguments for gay marriage. He hopes that marriage will curb promiscuity among gay males, as it clearly does for heterosexuals. But precisely by his logic, this may work for heterosexuals only because it harnesses male drives to female choice. Will two males have the same effect on one another? This does not, of course, mean that gay marriage is a bad idea. It just means we have to think about it some more. That is what kausfiles is all about.
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